This is certainly easier said than done! But very wise words, nonetheless. There's a bit of grieving involved in anything lost. But it's so reassuring to remember that any loss now is temporary, no matter how very permanent it feels at the moment. I try to remember that Jehovah will more than make up for anything lost now. No matter how much suffering Jehovah sees, and has seen, he still describes himself as "the happy God". I can't help but wonder of this is partly because He is always moving forward, actively working toward the solution, absolutely confident of the happiness He will bring his loyal ones so very, very soon. I want to move forward too. Work at the solution. And keep that amazing hope alive and real. Otherwise, how else will we get through this?